Habits & Behaviour Change

When knowing what you want to stop or start is not enough to make the behaviour change

This is a guide, not a complete list. You do not have to see your exact problem named on this page for it to be worth asking. People and problems rarely fit neatly into one category.

Common reasons people may come for help in this area

  • Smoking and a clear decision to stop
  • Emotional eating, comfort eating or habitual eating patterns
  • Unwanted habits that feel automatic
  • Avoidance patterns that bring short-term relief but create longer-term restriction
  • Procrastination and repeatedly putting off important tasks
  • Reassurance-seeking, checking or repetitive behaviours
  • Compulsive-feeling patterns that you want to understand and interrupt
  • Behaviour linked to stress, boredom, emotion or particular cues
  • Difficulty maintaining changes you genuinely want
  • A strong 'I know what I should do, but I still don't do it' pattern

Behaviour usually has a function

An unwanted behaviour may reduce tension, provide comfort, create a sense of control, help you avoid something difficult or simply have become highly automatic through repetition. Understanding that function gives us more useful options than treating the behaviour as a failure of willpower.

Different habits need different approaches

Some problems are well suited to focused habit-change work or hypnotherapy. Others need broader psychotherapy because the behaviour is connected to emotion, relationships, trauma, self-worth or another underlying difficulty.

Compulsions need careful assessment

Repetitive behaviour can have many causes. Where symptoms suggest obsessive compulsive disorder or another condition with a specialist evidence-based pathway, I will discuss that rather than presenting generic hypnotherapy as a substitute.

Can't see exactly what you are dealing with? Please do not take that to mean I cannot work with it. Tell me briefly what is happening. I can let you know whether it falls within my scope and, where another practitioner or service would be more suitable, I will say so.
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